When people have nothing better to do than talk degradingly (is that even a word? Tim doesn't think so... So... I wikipedia'd it and while it isn't "technically" a word, it was used in Old English Literature... and if you look at the word, "Degrade" that is what I was referring to, but needed to make it a verb- thus adding the "ly") about other people (esp. people whom have actually stood up for the aforementioned bad talker) You know, I am not a dummy (not even close... wanna check out my ACT scores? Nah... what would that prove?) and I realize that everyone won't like me (and some people... I almost would rather not like me...) and I definitely won't like everyone else. BUT... I will, in Christian love, love everyone in some way, shape or form. Sadly enough I have definitely seen that even those whom claim to be "Christian" don't always have the gift of love.
I guess what gets me most is when people take personal stabs, about things they know NOTHING about. I guess maybe in some way, shape or form, it makes them feel better about themselves. At least I hope so, because at least then there is some sort of gratification. If that is the case, please, stab away... not that you need permission or anything... that has definitely already been made clear that it isn't necessary.
I could go into more detail, but the question of "why" lingers in my mind, which is more or less my consciences' way of saying "pull back the reins here Ms. Jen" Instead, I will just put myself out here, lest anyone has something to actually say to my face.
Now that my mind is a bit less foggy, I must bid an early goodnite. This weekend has been rough, busyness wise. With three graduation parties, (one being 2 hours away and a drive through tornadic weather...) a photography consultation, a youth fundraiser and Ms. Addie's second birthday party, one might say that this Momma is a bit tuckered out. Yes, tuckered out would completely describe me right now... and that is without the last two items even having had taken place yet. Don't even ask me how I feel tomorrow... oh wait, how many days is it until vacation?
oh... and in case you are wondering what the heck this is all about... it probably has nothing to do with you, it is just something that I needed to get off my chest tonite. The whole ACT comment, yeah, my dry attempt at humor- Tim didn't think it was funny either... but he gave me two points for the effort. ;) Wonder when I can trade those in?
I guess what gets me most is when people take personal stabs, about things they know NOTHING about. I guess maybe in some way, shape or form, it makes them feel better about themselves. At least I hope so, because at least then there is some sort of gratification. If that is the case, please, stab away... not that you need permission or anything... that has definitely already been made clear that it isn't necessary.
I could go into more detail, but the question of "why" lingers in my mind, which is more or less my consciences' way of saying "pull back the reins here Ms. Jen" Instead, I will just put myself out here, lest anyone has something to actually say to my face.
Now that my mind is a bit less foggy, I must bid an early goodnite. This weekend has been rough, busyness wise. With three graduation parties, (one being 2 hours away and a drive through tornadic weather...) a photography consultation, a youth fundraiser and Ms. Addie's second birthday party, one might say that this Momma is a bit tuckered out. Yes, tuckered out would completely describe me right now... and that is without the last two items even having had taken place yet. Don't even ask me how I feel tomorrow... oh wait, how many days is it until vacation?
oh... and in case you are wondering what the heck this is all about... it probably has nothing to do with you, it is just something that I needed to get off my chest tonite. The whole ACT comment, yeah, my dry attempt at humor- Tim didn't think it was funny either... but he gave me two points for the effort. ;) Wonder when I can trade those in?
8:44 AM
ok, ok...just because Tim is a comical genius (seriously-he has a good sense of humor)...i think that you did a good job of making your point without being too cynical! :) i appreciate your topic! although, i have no proof of such things occuring to me, i have had the feeling (especially last month) that people were talking about me and i was trying really hard to "be-friend" these people-not b/c i need more friends but b/c i had to see them everyday and i wanted the days to be pleasant! anyway, you get my drift! go girl!
in other news, we are going to now be in your "area" on June 16-17...i know you are going somewhere but i wasn't sure when you were leaving...let me know! i would love to have a short visit! if i have to make it a business call (aka pay you to photograph my kiddos) i will! :) love ya!
2:17 PM
Been there. {{hugs}} Do not grow weary from doing good :)
9:39 PM
"Tim is a comical genius"
this bears repeating.